Redefining the Journey for Black Women
So often women, successful women find themselves in long-standing careers, relationships with great people, loving family, and comfortable homes. Living a life many would envy.
Yet on the inside, deep on the inside, they are keenly aware of an emptiness. An ever-present unexplainable void that they may even be hesitant to admit. Eventually this sense that something’s missing gets labeled as unsatisfied or unfulfilled.
Is this you?
Are you a successful black woman who has checked all the boxes, achieved all the things yet are continuing to feel unfulfilled? Then you are in the right place.
I used to think that my desire to experience freedom, connection, ease and fulfillment was a pipe dream. Where did those things fit into my daily life? Success combined with satisfaction felt illusive. If I was totally honest, I didn’t believe I could have it all.
I now know there is nothing further from the truth. Gone are the days of feeling like I was living a life that was not my own. Today, I am living a life of deep meaning and satisfaction. You can have the same experience too.
Yes, it is possible.
I am Bridget and I am here to show you the way. I am here to support your journey and walk the path of discovery and growth with you so you can have all the success and fulfillment you long for. Let’s connect and explore how you can begin your journey on the path to success and fulfillment.
The Path to Lifelong Fulfillment
Did you grow up hearing that you needed to get an education, get a job, get married, have children, live a good life?
Yet, now that you’ve completed that prescribed path, you still feel like something is missing? Deep down inside, you have a desire for more; a yearning for something you perhaps have not quite identified.
For many years I felt that same sense of dissatisfaction. A yearning for connection, ease and joy.
I discovered that yearning, that desire, was my soul calling me to connect; a call to connect to the truest part of me.
In each person’s soul a purpose has been planted…
That one thing that you came to this planet to fulfill. When we fulfill that purpose we experience a sense of deep inner joy and satisfaction. We come into this world to fulfill that specific purpose. Trouble is, we don’t always know what it is. We may have an idea but the truth is we must discover it.
Much of what we experience in life affirms what we don’t want our lives to be like. Some experiences affirm what we do want our lives to be like. Funny. Somehow they both move us closer to discovering our soul’s purpose and living it out. And ultimately experiencing the joy and satisfaction we desire.
Being able to accept and understand where you’ve been and where you are being led allows you to embrace your journey and chart your course to your greatest fulfillment.
Embrace the Journey
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The Path Revealed
Discovering who you truly are may sound like it should be easy. And some may say that it is. Others may say that it is difficult, challenging. I say it requires intention. We get glimpses of our true selves from time to time and we love the experience. We don’t always have that experience every day. And it is possible to have it every day. It is a process and it unfolds in three phases – Authenticity, Empowerment and Fulfillment.
Authentic Self
Discover direction
Perhaps you started out on life’s journey doing what was expected of you. You may have been socialized to follow a particular prescribed path. The excitement of achieving milestones in relationships and a career seemed to be enough.
Then you have found yourself questioning your choices. Did I choose the right profession? Am I in the right relationship? What’s missing? Something just doesn’t seem to fit.
Reflecting on your past, you may have a tendency to judge it, make it wrong and even blame yourself for where you are. You may be frustrated.
The truth is there is nothing wrong. This is what it looks like on the journey to expressing your authentic self. This is the opportunity to engage and cooperate with the process and begin unearthing your true and authentic self.
Your authentic self is not just who you are now. Who you are authentically includes who you were then as well as who you are now. Being able to see yourself for who you really are without judgment or criticism and with nothing but love and acceptance brings a sense of peace and ease and freedom. Like you are alive again.
Empowerment
Embrace Your Inner Strength
What is your relationship to power? Do you cringe when you hear the word? Feel small and constrained? Do you have a sense of excitement? Groundedness? Strength?
Embedded in the word empowerment is the word power. When you hear the word power do you think of something outside of yourself? Or something within yourself? Where are you accessing your own power? Where are you giving it away?
To this point you have likely empowered your programmed life. Chances are you have empowered the person that you’ve become as a result of your upbringing, training and experiences, etc. You may have been living more by default than by intention.
With a bit of support you can empower your true self. You can choose to live the life that your soul wants to live and fulfill your deepest desires. You can be empowered to choose the path that allows you to fully express who you are. From this empowerment you can experience the fulfillment you desire in your life.
Empowerment
Embrace Your Inner Strength
What is your relationship to power? Do you cringe when you hear the word? Feel small and constrained? Do you have a sense of excitement? Groundedness? Strength?
Embedded in the word empowerment is the word power. When you hear the word power do you think of something outside of yourself? Or something within yourself? Where are you accessing your own power? Where are you giving it away?
To this point you have likely empowered your programmed life. Chances are you have empowered the person that you’ve become as a result of your upbringing, training and experiences, etc. You may have been living more by default than by intention.
With a bit of support you can empower your true self. You can choose to live the life that your soul wants to live and fulfill your deepest desires. You can be empowered to choose the path that allows you to fully express who you are. From this empowerment you can experience the fulfillment you desire in your life.
Fulfillment
Live it Forward
You have spent a fair amount of time yearning to get to a place inside that may seem like you will never get there. You feel like when you get there you will be not just happy but experience pure joy. That when you get to that place you will experience wholeness and satisfaction. You will be at peace.
No, you do not have to die to experience this. You can experience all of this while you are alive and living your life.
Each woman experiences fulfillment a little differently. Fulfillment is that sense of all being well. That feeling of completeness and wholeness that you feel after you have achieved something that you have set out to accomplish. It’s a sense of peace.
As you allow your essence, your true self, to express, you discover that your relationship with yourself alters. You develop a deeper love relationship with yourself. You experience deeper, more meaningful relationships with others. You find that you are fulfilled.
Beginning to experience the fulfillment you are so desperately yearning for is as easy as clicking the button below.
One Proud Black Woman’s Story
Are you like me? On the outside it all looks good. People even remark at how “put together” you are. As women, especially black women, we are conditioned to project strength while inside we are often questioning our value and battling feelings of inferiority.
I’ve been there. There have been times in my life where I have been complimented for my strong calm demeanor. And that is true. I often appeared calm in some of the most unsettling and stressful situations. But the truth was underneath I was having a completely different experience.
I had learned to project a certain persona while at the same time suppressing my feelings and keep my thoughts to myself. In many ways it simply felt safer to keep it to myself rather than expose myself to judgment or rejection. I found myself bottling things up, not even sharing with those closest to me that I truly wanted to share with.
It’s no wonder that I found myself sitting at the edge of the bed balling and feeling totally disconnected from myself. Unable to speak; unable to share what I was feeling.
I finally had to admit that even though I had an amazing husband, thriving kids, and a wonderful career, I felt like I was living a life that did not feel like my own. I was doing all the right things yet I wasn’t experiencing the joy, success and fulfillment one expects to come with checking all the boxes.
I had been hit hard with the realization of how unhappy I was. Unfulfilled, unsatisfied, and having a deeply aching heart does not begin to describe what I was feeling. Even with this awareness I kept doing what I always did – I kept it to myself. I was well trained to go along to get along rather than find my own path.
Thankfully, this is all in my past. From this place of awareness I began a journey of discovery that has included self-help, personal development and spiritual exploration. Where once I was walking around in the dark, I had found the door. The light is shining through and continues to guide me on my path.
Since that time, my prayer has always been that God would teach me so that I could teach others. My deepest desire is to support other black women on their journey to Authenticity, Empowerment and Fulfillment.
I look forward to sharing the journey with you.
What Clients Are Saying…
My greatest privilege is to walk alongside black women on their own journey of self-discovery. Hear what women like you have to say about their experience.
CLARITY
“I can see things so much clearer when I speak with Bridget. She is patient, kind and compassionate. Really facilitates me accessing insight.”
~KW
DEPTH
“I feel very comfortable speaking with Bridget. I can share freely and get to deep places within myself. Her recommendations have been extremely beneficial.”
~AJ
GROWTH
“Bridget is straight with me. I may not always like it but I grow in the process; become stronger. And I am learning to trust myself”
~DJT